We need to decisively reshape the social meaning of masculinity to include vulnerability, capacity for empathy and the entire range of emotional experience and expression.
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4 “Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”
6 They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone." 8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.
9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”
11 “No, Lord,” she said.
And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”
Now THAT is how a Real Man deals with harassment. No safe spaces, no Antifa rioting, no big hugs. Maybe a reshaping is needed....but we needn't look ahead, just back 2000 years.
No, thanks, Mr. Henry Beecher. I took the red pill and don’t indulge in Roman polytheism, messing with other men’s wives, making excuses for messing with other men’s wives or messed up metaphors.
Churches gradually chose their new bed since around 1970. They’ll lay in it.