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... and, while that could be the case, I’m willing to give him the benefit of the doubt.

In all these responses, you're one of the few who are not judgmental. Everyone has their sins, but would point at the sins of others. As you say, no one knows what really happened. I know someone who cheated on his wife. She had no idea, didn't suspect any women. He was fooling around with another man. Devastated, she divorced him and it was sad for their children. It's not always another woman. Then there are the wives who don't satisfy their husbands, refusing to give them sex for years, and the men can't deal with it and look elsewhere. Many men are pigs, but not all. Some may have their reasons for straying. Anyway, it's his ordeal to deal with it now.