Is this guy having sexual relations with someone other than his wife? Yes. That's adultery, and that's not "being judgmental toward somebody," it's telling it like it is.
You dont have to know Jesse.
You dont have to know his relationship with his wife.
You dont have to know the girl he hooked up with OR what their relationship is.
You don't have not know how often he's rutting (your own rather repellent choice of verb.)
Is he doing what he vowed before God and all --- or the magistrate and witnesses --- that he would not do? It's an objective, yes/no thing.
Is he doing what he vowed before God and all -— or the magistrate and witnesses -— that he would not do? It’s an objective, yes/no thing.
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Oh, really? And here I was thinking the Puritans died out hundreds of years ago.