The issue here isn’t dating someone from work, like as you point out, it can work out wonderfully. The issue is that he had an adulterous affair, and is now leaving two little girls with a broken home.
There’s a difference between meeting someone at work if you’re single and canoodling a coworker if you’re married, but I take your point.
“The issue is that he had an adulterous affair, and is now leaving two little girls with a broken home.”
Please tell us all about his marriage, when he and the next one started up, and how you know it was prior to her filing. Also for bonus points, tell us what life was like with is wife. Did she completely turn off the nookie? Did she turn into a stone hearted mean bit@h with the “mission accomplished” mentality? Did she make the slightest effort to be a warm source of pleasure, sexuality and comfort for him?
I hope the guy has happy trails ahead.