I don’t have a TV. The Bureau of Justice statistics speak for themselves: men sometimes lash out with violence when they are rejected. This has always been true. I have no idea what you are trying to say... perhaps self-expression is not your strong point.
Murder is mostly a very messy business. Every now and then some wacko will hold his girlfriend hostage in the house or shoot her at her place of employment. Front page news. But in the other 99% of the cases, there is a mess of mutual combat, he said, she said, third party actors, and coincidence. None of it is in the statistic that reports that murder.