Many years ago I had a colleague who decided he was really a she. So he had the operation, and magically, he was a she. After some time as a “she”, she decided that she was a lesbian. So......it took all that to decide that he/she liked girls, just like he did when he was younger. Now, however, it was too late.
So, the moral of that story is ‘life is short don’t make it any shorter?’