I feel your pain. I have one adult daughter who married a “Bernie Bro” but the irony is that he works in accounting! They are in their early forties now and I believe are softening up a bit—not such hardline Marxists anymore.
Fortunately, I have an adult son who is in the Air Force, married with one daughter. Conservative.
Usually I call evil Democrats Demonicrats. I didn’t do that to my son. He’s just too libiot and Progressive. The latter are actually Regressives. With transgenders, they ignore the current anti ‘gender-affirming care’ scientific research.