Damon Van Dam Testifies Tearfully, Fends Off Lifestyle Attack:Day 3 of Westerfield Trial

CourtTV ^ | June 6, 2002 | CourtTV

[Jaded]

N of TNF told them to call Dusek after he called them to report the incident.

[Southflanknorthpawsis]

What the heck are you talking about?

[Jaded]

Please.......the prosecution has been leaking too. San Diego needs a good plumber.

[Freedom2specul8]

Do you remember when brenda said in PH that after he gave them a round of drinks and then she turned her back to him. She said she felt sorry for him or something cuz no one was talking to him but he was just looking at them? I'll see if it's in the transcripts. Glad hubby doesn't mind me watching this..I didn't get any cleaning done today. :)

[sbnsd]

I think it can be a matter of opinion or semantics.

when is a party not a party.

When it's a gathering?
When it's a get together?
When it's not fun?
When it's not formally planned but spontaneous?
How many people are in a get together before it becomes a party?

[spectre]

Hi BS...do you not remember personally attacking ME last night, as in calling me a LIAR, because you misunderstood my post?

Hummmmm? I let it go.

sw

[Jaded]

But that is an about face from her reaction at the PH. What's up with that?

[Freedom2specul8]

Sorry bout that..I was reading mizS's reply to you... and thought I'd throw my $.02 in cuz it had been brought up before even now.. I think it's very easy to tell the difference between a party, and a get together. The same thing wrt:orgies. (can you believe we even have to discuss this?) An adult halloween party, may mean don't bring kids, there will be drinking involved..and in their case probably pot.. No one has been able to answer my question..were there other people at the party besides the people in the orgie?

[Jaded]

What do you call it when it's in bed? That is the sticking point.

[MizSterious]

I shouldn't step into this one (I hate cleaning off my shoes), but last night you called someone an out and out liar, and--if memory serves--the remark was never taken back nor any apology issued. (Please correct me if I'm mistaken about this.) The accusation occurred over something the lady in question was reporting--something said by others, not her words at all. That's terribly unfair and unworthy of you, because ordinarily, you're not what I'd term a "flamer."

Just pointing this out, while we're pointing fingers at one another.

[Jaded]

Whoa. The Halloween party being an "Adult Party" means alcohol and pot with the VD's. But an "Adult Party" from a single man means sex?

[Freedom2specul8]

ok...we know they planned the halloween party..that's obvious. Brenda said it was not a risque party to feldman I think, maybe dusek. That means no sex. Damon supposedly whispered to the prosecution in front of the jury that the kids weren't home. (per post at websleuths) Should we assume that other people were at the party cuz I don't think the defense got that part clarified. Knowing if brenda invited other people would help confirm her story. If the ''orgy'' happened after other guests left, then we can say the halloween party wasn't a sex party..see? Or am i completely off base here?

[Freedom2specul8]

no no no..I said the same thing about DW too. Everyone ELSE assumed it meant sex... I didn't. I got flamed a little for it to I might add.

[Amore]

Hi BS...do you not remember personally attacking ME last night, as in calling me a LIAR, because you misunderstood my post?

Hummmmm? I let it go.

Oh, you're pulling that trick on Bunny Slippers too, huh? Post something derogatory about that person, and then play all innocent when that person calls you on it? It's nice to know I'm not the only one I guess. That's a great way to keep asserting it's only folks on the prosecution side who start the flame wars -- post something nasty then say you were misunderstood. But that trick wears real thin, transparently thin, real fast.

[MizSterious]

Well, it was for some of the party-goers, that's for sure.

[FresnoDA]

"PARTYING HARD" means drinking hard..and he specifically said that it would include drinking shot glass after shot glass. He said they were not doing that.

OK...I will grant you that, then was does.....

Swinging Hard mean???

[Southflanknorthpawsis]

I felt I better be very sure that I had not gone over the line in offensiveness anywhere on this thread.

So I went back over every post of mine. I only see a little spark with you and of course my other newly found friend.

It looks like you might have been tempted to exaggerate because you're upset. The facts don't really bear out your claims.

[BunnySlippers]

I shouldn't step into this one (I hate cleaning off my shoes), but last night you called someone an out and out liar, and--if memory serves--the remark was never taken back nor any apology issued. (Please correct me if I'm mistaken about this.) The accusation occurred over something the lady in question was reporting--something said by others, not her words at all. That's terribly unfair and unworthy of you, because ordinarily, you're not what I'd term a "flamer."

Gotcha. But did I not (when this was pointed out to me) say that it was "duly noted"?

I personally am getting sick of trying to post on the Van Dam threads and having someone (like SF) state that I don't know what I'm talking about.

[Freedom2specul8]

I cannot believe you... :) Typical man. Thinking about how thangs swing.

[BunnySlippers]

It looks like you might have been tempted to exaggerate because you're upset. The facts don't really bear out your claims.

The facts throughly bear out my claims. Lately you attack people when they do not agree with you.

Last night with spectre, it was pointed out that I mis-read the post. You're not misreading posts, you're unable to accept an opposing opinion.