[Freedom2specul8]

Let's break it down even further.

when is a party not a party..

[Mrs.Liberty]

Quite true, but just to be precise, when I wrote this: when is a sex party not a sex party, I was quoting the local commentator. They were not my words.

[sbnsd]

I think it can be a matter of opinion or semantics.

when is a party not a party.

When it's a gathering?
When it's a get together?
When it's not fun?
When it's not formally planned but spontaneous?
How many people are in a get together before it becomes a party?