Could Mr. Right be white? [Black women choosing white men]

Atlanta Journal-Constitution ^ | 7/13/2

[sneakypete]

When 'Minister' Farakhan was in Dallas a couple of years ago, he orated before a crowd of 4,000 brothas, that if every black man mated with a white women, the white race would go away.

There is a group that seems to be based in California who call themselves the "Brown Reality Coalition". I've seen them on tv shows,and their big focus is to encourage young "Hispanics" to impregnate every white girl they can get to have sex with them,so "the brown race can take over". PLEASE note that they aren't saying "intermarry" or "mate with",but are saying "impregnate and move on to another one".

[x]

Post 9/11 we are all more aware that we are all Americans. A decade ago the racial and ethnic splits were greater. As was the awareness of ethnic winners and losers. Today things look very different. An external threat reminds us of what we have in common. In the absence of such a threat, divisions at home will increase and intensify, as may the affinity of various ethnic groups with their relatives abroad.

Also, as Americans we are all to some degree mongrels. In Europe and elsewhere in the world, things may be different. When Ireland or Denmark or Italy is as ethnically mixed as we are, something culturally valuable has possibly been lost. It's great to have places where people of all different backgrounds can mix and mingle and marry. When the whole world becomes that way, the result isn't "diversity" but sameness.

[NativeNewYorker]

My kids are 1/2 Polish Jew, 1/4 Iranian (Christian), 1/4 Norwegian, with trace Irishness.

[NativeNewYorker]

Going to Michigan was like discovering a new world.

This lifelong New Yorker will never EVER forget his first trip to Michigan to meet the future in-laws.

[conservatism_IS_compassion]

anecdotally, black males' propensity for lifelong monogamous marriage has been in secular decline for generations. So asking what the impact of this is on their ability to "find wives" doesn't seem too relevant, and if anything, is backwards. Their female counterparts, long suffering their erstwhile mates' wanderlust, have decided to move on.

The social impact is seen already in ghetto neighborhoods, with unattached black men in evidence. And it is also seen on college campuses where black women are disproportionately seen, and in the census data, when they marry white guys.

Darwin would approve

. . . except that genetically, we're speaking of people with the same parents--the males consigned to the genetic ash heap, and the females to the suburbs. We have a fundamental problem, and if the color line is indefensible and crossing it helps some individuals, still the problem for society persists. Unattached young and not-so-young males with no stake in society and nothing better to do than study Islam in jail is not good.

The real crux of the matter is the culture which, if it did send Martha to college and an interracial marriage, raised Johnny to go to prison. In that scenario there is serious reason for the parents of Mr. Right to wonder about the fate of their prospective grandsons, and if nothing else bugged you that should.

[MinorityRepublican]

So you are proof of the robustness of hybrids! :)

Heh, there's no dog stronger than a mutt! :-)

[NativeNewYorker]

Everything you say is true, and yes, it does give me pause.

I was describing what I see, not prescribing a comprehensive cure.

[jejones]

Now I'm unsure about both versions. :-)

Does "I'm not X because of Y" mean "I am X, but Y isn't the reason" or "I'm not X, and Y is the reason"? Perhaps in spoken form one could distinguish by inflection; I'd think that the first meaning would be expressed with a rising inflection (anticipating giving the real reason).

Signed,
Puzzled

P.S. I still recall a time that a good friend of mine from down south saw an interracial couple (black man, white woman) up here (in Iowa) when we were at a restaurant. He asked me whether it was a common occurrence. (I had to say that I'd seen such couples a few times, but hadn't really been keeping count. Like other respondents here, I haven't personally happened across an interracial couple in which the woman is black and the man white.)

[Clemenza]

I like curvaceous Colombians and Brazillians myself...

[Clemenza]

The Asian dolls that I know are mostly low maintenance, tender, kind, considerate and very very sexy!!!

No breasts, no a-s, nerdy. Give me a Brasiliera anyday of the week...

[Pappy Smear]

It could be the black girls would like some oral attention down below. Rumor has it that the average black gentleman does not prefer to do that, but white boys don't mind.

I could be off base, but it seems I read some survey to that effect.

[zarf]

I, myself have done some research into this area and can assure my good friend that this is true.

[zarf]

I have dated black women and they, shockingly, have much in common with Jewish women. Both are demanding.

[scan58]

(late) *ping*

[stands2reason]

Blondes or redheads, never dark hair.

[stands2reason]

The Dozens is kind of like a game of trading insults.

[FITZ]

I've seen them on tv shows,and their big focus is to encourage young "Hispanics" to impregnate every white girl they can get to have sex with them,so "the brown race can take over".

It's kind of weird but those mixes usually look more white than hispanic. Even where one of the parents is quite dark, the kids look more anglo in most cases so their plan isn't going to work that well.

[Mark17]

The Asian dolls that I know are mostly low maintenance, tender, kind, considerate and very very sexy!!!

You must have gone to the Philippines like I did.

[Mark17]

though there are always White men around that I find attractive.

Ah ha, Mafree, I know Troy Donahue was one of them right? :)

[Clemenza]

I have dated black women and they, shockingly, have much in common with Jewish women. Both are demanding.

Latin women too, although at least Latin women don't generally insult or fight with their man in public.