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and I do think that homosexuals would get a lot more tolerance from society if they were themselves more tolerant of the definition of normalcy

I think you're right, MoscowMike. Don't tell everyone and everyone's children that homosexuality is 'normal' (It isn't.) or that it's 'healthy' (It isn't.). Don't try to get near people's children and influence them in ways parents don't want you to. Don't try to get access in close quarters to people's children (as in the Catholic Church, and as they try to do in Boy Scouts). Don't try to teach gay ideology to parents' kids in school. If all that happened (It won't.), most people would be fine with live-and-let-live.