Are you saying that only women should have a say in abortion? That men have no rights as fathers nor any ethical lights as human beings by which to evaluate the morality of such a decision?
No one is coming even remotely close to intimating that here that I can see, and neither did Mr. Muth (who is a wonderful man).
The point was that when given the opportunity to address an audience larger than that reading your posts, do what will be the most effectively received by the audience. A man on TV railing against abortion is instant eye-glaze. It will win the cause approximately zero converts. (example: Keyes. Brilliant oratory, but fodder for the choir.)
(Absolutely nothing is more gripping, and honest, than a repentant post-abortive woman, IMO.)