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Many people do not grasp the repercussions of an R.O.

Firstly, they are filed without a hearing from both parties....wide open to abuse by an aggrieved party.

Secondly, the R. O. immediately deprives the other party from access to their home,posessions,vehicles,bank accounts, stock certificates,records,etc. The cited party has to call a police officer to escort them into their home and they are only allowed to garner a set of clothes and toilet articles.

Thirdly a R.O. deprives the named party from any contact with their children.

Fourthly, the R.O. demands that the named party surrender all firearms.

Finally the R.O. declares the named party guilty without a court hearing and is often used as a vehicle of vengence and asset stripping.

Let me give you an example I dealt with recently, a friend went to work a few Fridays ago , as he returned home he was stopped by the police and served the R.O, taken out by his wife that afternoon and signed by the judge at 4.30 pm.His wife was having an affair and stated that he appeared threatening one day a few months ago as he questioned her whereabouts.He could not go home, he could not see his children,by Monday his wife had cleaned his accounts and sold his stockholdings, by Tuesday her boyfriend had moved into his house, by Wednesday his mortgage payment was due,and so on,it took four weeks before a hearing before the Judge, who reversed her decision...too late, he was already ruined.

My experience the R.O. is abused beyond belief.

He could not go home, he could not see his children,by Monday his wife had cleaned his accounts and sold his stockholdings, by Tuesday her boyfriend had moved into his house, by Wednesday his mortgage payment was due,and so on,it took four weeks before a hearing before the Judge, who reversed her decision...too late, he was already ruined.

I also know similar cases. The present situation is extremely corrupting for women. It gives them power to steal and attack with impunity, giving them privileged victim status. On the other hand honest women can be punished, harassed, imprisoned and having their children confiscated if they refuse to go along with feminist agenda. See: Heidi reluctantly agreed to get a restraining order so DSS wouldn’t take her children.

Let me give you an example I dealt with recently, a friend went to work a few Fridays ago , as he returned home he was stopped by the police and served the R.O, taken out by his wife that afternoon and signed by the judge at 4.30 pm.His wife was having an affair and stated that he appeared threatening one day a few months ago as he questioned her whereabouts.He could not go home, he could not see his children,by Monday his wife had cleaned his accounts and sold his stockholdings, by Tuesday her boyfriend had moved into his house, by Wednesday his mortgage payment was due,and so on,it took four weeks before a hearing before the Judge, who reversed her decision...too late, he was already ruined.

Which is why all married men should have a large 'slush fund' that only they have access to. The only person that should know about it is their lawyer (in case they die). As sad as it is, 'til death do us part' is only true about half the time. Of course nobody thinks they'll ever get divorced when they get married - that's why men are so unprepared and these ROs are so effective.

Since men always play on an uneven field in family court it's especially important for men, at the first sign of domestic trouble (e.g., knows wife is cheating), to strike first and establish temporary orders in their own favor. Kick her out of the house and maintain control of the home, finances and children.

Ditto #10. I've seen it happen too many times before.

IMO, WOMEN WITH NO MORAL VALUE FREQUENTLY FILE BOGUS RESTRAINING ORDERS TO GAIN AN UPPER HAND IN A DIVORCE SITUATION....HAPPENS DAY IN DAY OUT IN AMERICA.