My best to you, Lurker-- I saw a few of your comments on the JBR posts ( regarding the Polly Klaus murder )-- my wife had one of her best friends murdered at an all-night liquor store down the street from here, and to this day she avoids going that way. People sometimes forget that in the real world, actions have irredeemable consequences, and events like those touch people in ways that can't be pigeonholed, or predicted.
I saw a report- somewhere, a long time ago- that claimed for each single person who was murdered, a minimum of 20 more were permanently impacted by it.