[KoestlersRedFiat]

Category 6 describes me.

But at 37, I realize I am not going to find that soulmate. Dating in A.D. 2002 is an exercise in frustration and humiliation. From this and other like threads, I know that I'll have a lot of other singles for company in the retirement home that lays in my future.

[jrp]

yep, you are not alone.
39 and never married.
Rather that than married to the wrong person or divorced.

[Nebr FAL owner]

I've known that for at least 10 years . Having just turned 39 I gave up on the dating scene years ago.

[FITZ]

I know that I'll have a lot of other singles for company in the retirement home

Maybe then you'll meet your perfect soulmate. I don't think there are perfect soulmates, you have to find someone compatible and work things out. People get set in their ways though, it's easier for people if they marry young and grow together.