My wife and I are relatively young, so kids are still in the future. No car payments - both our cars are 8-10 years old and we will drive them until they die. We are making extra payments on the mortgage so we can pay the debt off early.
Regardless of how 'unpatriotic' some people make us out to be, we are clamping down on any and all unnecessary spending. God has given us this time to save and be good stewards. We are being frugal because we are not fools.
We were in the same place in the '70's. Paying down debt turned into the smartest thing we ever did.
If you make $100,000, and owe $500,000, you can live the same way with a lot less stress and fear by making less and owing still less, and are a lot more flexible in adjusting to setbacks. And if the career gets back on track in the future, you are way ahead.