[SauronOfMordor]

With our two income households, we are really not so different than we used to be, except that now we neglect our children far more.

We had a simple solution. Rather than deciding on a mandated standard of living, and deciding that the only way to do it is to have two incomes, we decided she would stay home with the kids and our standard of living would be determined by what I made as the sole income.

Driving a 10-year-old Nissan instead of a new Lexus is not a big sacrifice for me.