[bcoffey]

"You must present yourself as one who is to be catered to, to be waited on. "

I must strongly disagree.

Anytime a person misrepresents his or her true self they are sowing the seeds of trouble down the road. Contrary to your statement "you must learn how to make men treat you the way you want" you cannot make someone to be anything.

True change comes from deep within, not from being imposed from without.

[waterstraat]

"You must present yourself as one who is to be catered to, to be waited on. " I must strongly disagree. Anytime a person misrepresents his or her true self they are sowing the seeds of trouble down the road. Contrary to your statement "you must learn how to make men treat you the way you want" you cannot make someone to be anything. True change comes from deep within, not from being imposed from without.

Perhaps, you didnt like my choice of words.

YOu must learn how to have men "want" to cater to you, to want to wait on you, to want to get you a coffee, to want to grant your every wish, to want to make you happy, to want to protect you, to want to provide for you, and to wait on you.

Is that better?