I actually did this (confronted the person & not hurt the car) about this time last year. The neighbors in question actually threatened to kill me if I complained again. They are no longer my neighbors, I didn't take kindly to that.. And I wouldn't do this in the middle of the night. I would also, as a result of past experience, use the police this time. These type of (noisy and intrusive) people have already demonstrated what they are like.
BTW, I'm 220 lbs. and 6'4" and one mean SOB if assaulted. Not many people would do much other than turn around quickly and leave if they were set out to to whip my @ss and then found out who I was. As for the few that might not?
Well ... I suppose that I should be out of jail before they were out of the hospital.