Why the hell should the furniture stink? Maybe because he PAID for it. I smoke and I will smoke in my home any damn time I choose. I have 4 sons and you know what? They have NEVER had the audacity to tell me to go outside and smoke. Your dad was no doubt a good father.....you on the other hand sound like a twit of a son or daughter.
Now that's a real man. You have every right to be a complete jerk in your own home.