I think you've hit on something important. I've watched a lot of friends pick a lot of jerks (and vote for Clinton in their spare time). A good example to work with is much better than a bad example to avoid. My dad was great, and I'm telling my own daughter to "look for someone like Daddy" when she gets a little older.
It's a little easy to blame the feminists (and fun to do so as well) but I know so few gals with good fathering, and that's the serious answer. Maybe the men need to look in the mirror a little more often. Every lying slut had a father, sometime. And all these lying sluts who try to defraud these poor shnooks also have some guy in the background getting away with fraud.
Ah, but WHY do so few girls have good fathering? Because their *mothers* picked jerks! The question is, where did the cycle start?
I realize that men are part of the equation, but in my heart of hearts I'm sure it STARTED with the feminists. That's what my Mom told me, anyway.