[southernbychoice]

Yes.
First was not. Second was, though she has converted.
Yes.
No.
In his dreams. :)

[capitan_refugio]

I meant those questions to be rhetorical! ;^)

I am in no position, and have no desire, to comment on individuals personal situation. I do know that there are many, many websites that deal with canon law. If you are interested in doing your own research, just google "Catholic marriage divorce annullment" and see what pops up.