By all means, create the educational springboard that best honors your commitment to the future prosperity and happiness of your children.
But, you and I will still be paying to maintain a putrid and insidious culture and political outrage. If a young woman comes to Hennepin County and says "I'm pregnant, I don't know or can't tell you who the father is, I need some service" i.e. free pre-natal, birthing, post-natal and pediatric medical services forever more ... if we're paying for his roof, paying for his food, paying for his clothing and cribbing and toys and diapers ... that's OUR KID!
We've got to attack this blight and soon. Some culture to authenticate, a newborn and her 60 year old great great grandma. No, grampa is not a real word, nor is Dad and three uncles are currently unavailable for comment.
Getting the kids to Kindergarten with a foundation ready for go-go growth is what we OWE those doomed little babies. They're not going to get it without some vicious close order combat from the poverty pimps. Race based stuff too, though the problem is absolutely independent of skin color, and fully a function of cultural behavior and mores.
These children deserve better, and these parents don't deserve a thing.
These days, it seems that anyone who wants to instill traditional values is labeled a bigot, and dismissed.