find the whole thing condescending as hell........as are most of the responses here. These are ADULTS, and old or not, they sure as hell don't need anyone's permission to have sex. Fercryinoutloud...................pathetic. Seconded! Fortunately, the Boomers are coming. When my generation retires, it's unlikely that we will have any more respect for Nurse Ratched and her silly rules than we once had for Lyndon Johnson.