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I sincerely hope you do have a ton of grandkids to keep you busy, but there certainly is nothing abnormal about someone in a nursing facility or assisted living being interested in sex, or wanting to have sex with someone they met that makes them feel that way! Do you think as you age that your core being ages also, 'cause if you do you are in for an RFA. You may be old and infirm in body, but your innerself is still 20 or 30, doesn't matter how old you are.

Most of these people have lost their life's partners and are lonely for the hugs and touching that makes a body whole. They're not dead, they are not looking forward to being dead. They are old and lonely. They should be allowed to have privacy and relationships. They are not going to marry and raise a family, safe sex is redundant and this whole topic should not shock anyone.

it doesn't shock me, but it does take me by surprise, i guess because i never thought of it before. everything you said makes sense. i feel bad for them and think that they should be accomodated, the poor old guy just wants to be with his wife. the fact that he still wants to be with her despite her being partially paralyzed , i find very touching.