My cousin belongs to an ELCA Church in the Minneapolis area, and she is very active in her Parish. She said that they haven't heard about any of these changes regarding sexuality, and worship. Apparently, not all Pastors are keeping their flocks up on the gutting of the Lutheran Church.
A thread on 'Renewing Worship', if you haven't seen it:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-religion/1452064/posts