I said above: "It also means that we have the right to try to influence (not require) that correct decisions be made where there is not direct negative impact on others operating in this world."
And: "I do not support abortion especially to avoid the consequences of ones actions."
It might be good to read and understand all of what I wrote before responding.
I read your post, its just that you are so self-conflicted that you need direction.
Don’t kill innocent people by choice. Its just that simple.
In war some innocent people will die as a matter of consequence in order that a greater number of innocent people can be saved. They should not however be targeted.