I very rarely find myself thinking “I’d hit it” or “I’d not hit it.” It slips into my mind, because I hear others say it all the time. I can’t separate myself completely from the world. I have to live and work in it.
When I have that kind of thought, I stop and remind myself that I’m supposed to be focused on my wife. I’m not supposed to think of other women that way, and doing so is unhealthy. I prefer to concentrate on better things, but I don’t believe stray thoughts are sinful. It’s how I react to that thought that counts.
I also find it somewhat strange when men say they’d “hit it,” because most folks who speak like that would probably “hit” just about anyone. They could save everyone time by only letting us know when they find someone they wouldn’t hit. It would cut their outbursts down, oh, by about 99%.
As for myself, I could still use “hit it” or “not hit it,” but I’d be saving the former for my spouse and the latter for everyone else. Not much point in that.
I used the term “hit it” as an example. Not what I literally think. And I also do not dwell on it.