But do you have to gather or is it you , jesus and god? and not important to gather?
That's an awesome question daelbert. I don't HAVE to do anything to be saved except turn my life over to Jesus.
However, we're ENCOURAGED to meet together. Hebrews 10:25 "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another".
We are not meant to walk alone and I love regularly joining with my fellow believers to sing and hear the Word.
But you could never go and it cannot affect your salvation.