No! Divorce is not the greatest tragedy. The death of a child is the greatest tragedy. Divorce can only get second place.
I think it depends on your point of view.
I believe from the parents’ point of view I could see them go 50-50 on it. I think for men the breakup of their family may be worse. For the mother I think death of a child would probably be.
I think from an outsider, more societal point of view, the family breakup is worse.