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To: Legatus
Oh there were gems among all the places I lived... my mind may be playing tricks on me but I recall that most of them were ex-Catholics.

My experience both on FR and in real life agrees with yours. My boss is ex Catholic and is now a force in a rising wanna be mega church. He actively recruited me when I accepted employment; there have been other examples in the area of that as well. Given the apologetics that I learned, from among other places, here, he has not mentioned that rather new age feelgood non Biblical "Bible believing" cult in quite some time.

No wait... I forgot James Dobson, and with good reason. Three years of therapy to get that mess out of my head, thanks a lot Jimmy.

Anything in particular or just general semantics?

Oh yes, it was Bible, Bible, Bible, interpreted however the Sunday School teacher, childrens church director, preacher, evangelist or youth pastor chose to interpret it. Much scorn was heaped on the Catholics who drank, smoked, danced and ran to confession every Saturday... as if that was all that was available to them and it wasn't their fault if they didn't make use of the enormous deposit of spiritual help.

I never smoked very much and am not very fond of dancing...

5,890 posted on 09/17/2010 5:58:18 PM PDT by MarkBsnr ( I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so.)
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To: MarkBsnr
Anything in particular or just general semantics?

The book "Preparing for Adolescence" which was published in the late 70s almost single-handedly wrecked my life. I remember my mother crying out "You used to be so loving and kind, what's happening to you?" some years later I realized that what I had wanted to say was "if you could get all this Dobson stuff out of the house I might have a chance of actually becoming myself instead of this freak it's trying to turn me into." ... er, or words to that effect. So yeah... that took 3 years of intense therapy to work out. :)

30+ years later and if someone wants to send me into a feral rage all that has to be done is for a Dobson book to be tossed into my line of sight. Maybe I just didn't understand what he was getting at, but there's like a 14 year block of my life when I wouldn't allow another human being to so much as touch me, I mean down to little old ladies at church trying to hug me... I'd clothesline them. Sorry grandma, you invade my personal space and you're going down. And no, there's no deep dark secret lurking in my childhood, it's just how I reacted to Dobson's psychology.

We all have our little issues.

Hmm... I think I need to put him on my don't ask don't tell list. lol

5,893 posted on 09/17/2010 7:10:32 PM PDT by Legatus (Keep calm and carry on)
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