Wow! You really DON't read the gospels. Remember, Christ said, "Before Abraham was, I am." Now that statement is so profound, it can stand alone. "I and the Father are One." There's another one. So, are you saying there was no Christ before the Incarnation?
So, are you saying that, like the filthy Calvinists, Christ DID NOT choose His Mother? And frankly, I see no evidence of Calvinists on this forum following Christ, so I cannot believe that any of you are His family.
Do you believe Jesus was fully God at the time of his birth with all the knowledge and omniscience of God?