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Unfortunately, many wives these days are disgustingly overweight and have a terrible attitude.

I hear ya with the terrible anti-male attitude. I hear it from other women, and it's a shame, acting like sex with their husbands is one more odious duty in their day. That is WRONG and while cheating or porn addiction is wrong, I can understand the man giving up when he is pushed away and belittled for his healthy desires.

But I can't agree with you on the weight issue. Believe it or not, is can be healthier for an older woman to have more meat on her bones -- and after a certain age it may be nearly impossible without surgery to remain with the 20-year-old figure. And the guys at that age are also not always as trim as they once were. As long as the lady is only eating healthy foods, and getting some moderate exercise, she shouldn't have to constantly worry about her weight for her loving husband.

//is can be healthier for an older woman to have more meat on her bones//

I totally agree. I cant tell you how many women in their mid 30’s to mid 40’s I have told that a little padding here and there, a bit of a belly etc is healthy and attractive as far as I am concerned. All things in moderation though!

I also advise women against breast implants. There are rare situations for those type of procedures, but far to many women get them just because they think their breasts need to be larger and then they have to live with all the consequences afterwords.

50 years ago, only a tiny fraction of women turned into beluga whales as they aged. Nowadays it is becoming the norm. Human physiology hasn’t changed but eating habits have.

This is a major problem for their husbands, as men are visually stimulated.

Everybody gains a few pounds over time but obesity (now >30% of the population) is defined as a BMI of 30 or higher. For an average 5’4” woman, that’s a whopping 175 pounds. Like a beach ball with feet.

Here is a nice time-lapse video going back just 25 years:

http://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/trends.html

I hear it from other women, and it's a shame, acting like sex with their husbands is one more odious duty in their day.

Some times it is. I hear guys complain because their wife "just isn't interested any more" and I have to wonder if they have ever thought it is because they don't bother to interest her.

The guy that takes the time to get his wife warmed up and then takes the time afterwords to snuggle is going to get a lot more "happy sex" then the guy who is a "roll on, roll off" kind of guy.

There is also the other side of the coin in that a woman needs to make sure she makes time for her husband. Don't wait for him to make all the moves. Send the kids to mom and have a wonderful evening rolling around on the living room rug.

Spontaneity is nice but a well planned seduction says "I was thinking of you even when you were not here". That is a major turn on.

With all the information available out there from sex manuals to porn you would think that people know everything they need to be fantastic lovers. Weirdly enough the more they know the less they seem to use it.