She/He is not being idolatrous. She/He is merely asking St. Jude to pray for her.
Have you ever asked anyone to pray for you?
Catholics believe that the Saints in heaven can intercede — ask Christ — to answer our prayer.
Did not the Blessed Virgin Mary intercede for the couple who ran out of wine at the Wedding of Cana?
What is wrong with interceding for someone?
Answer: Nothing at all.