Resty, I've known you on these threads for a long time and honestly, I can't imagine anyone who exudes less peace and comfort than you. You really come across as angry, snarky, sarcastic, self-pitying, childish, persecuted, defensive, evasive, whiney, self-righteous and combative.
Your tagline changes from "let's all love each other like Jesus" one day to complaining about someone, ahem, "wetting" your leg the next.
Yeah, yeah, I had to move the beam in my eye to see it, but I'm not the one proclaiming my perfectness.
Maybe your "witnesss" needs some work.