Mary Lou, you are my friend and I cannot even begin to put into words how my heart is breaking for you. I love you and pray that G-d gives you all the strength and courage you need to get through this. I know that every one of us is grieving with you and praying for you and for your husband and your families. Please know that you are never alone.
ML, MM said it just right: we love you, we pray that the Creator gives you all the strength you need, and you are never alone—we are here for you.