They make no trades..period....they leave and then Christ leads them on the path that HE wants for them..at last! ...and good for them that they do for then they are truely free to learn about Christ, His word, and their faith as He wants them to know and that on a personal level. .....and then they soar!
I thank God for every one of those who had the courage to step away from the catholic church....and I pray more will hear God's call before it is too late.
You say they were "poorly catechized"???? I say God knew they were seeking the truth and prevented the false teaching from taking them down....He's good about things such as that when individuals are truly seeking Him.
You need to sincerely pray to God that the Holy Spirit will enlighten you and guide you to the fullness of truth only found in the Catholic Church, the Church founded by Jesus Christ.