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My ten year-old nephew died today
myself | March 23, 2013 | myself

Posted on 03/24/2013 12:07:58 AM PDT by proud American in Canada

Hi, everyone.

I hesitated to do this, because I know it's not right to post and run. However, I will check this thread first thing in the morning and reply. because I'm going to try to get some sleep. I just was hoping for some prayers sent out for my ten year-old nephew who died today.

He had cancer, which spread to from his adrenal gland to his lungs, then to his brain. My sister, who lives in Wisconsin, called the ambulance yesterday; James slipped into a coma, which I learned early this a.m. At around 3, our family spoke to him (my husband, my daughter and son, and myself) to wish him goodbye. He died about 30 minutes later.

She called me at around 6 to tell me; I had some work to do at 6:30, which is unimportant.

At this point, I feel that my faith is a little shaken. I wear a Cross every day, and I was praying for him. Now I wonder, where is he? I felt so sure before, that the soul lives on, but now I don't know. And what can I do for my sister? She lives so far away.

Anyway, I felt I had to reach out, even though I am exhausted. I will try to sleep, and will reply tomorrow. I guess I'm asking now if for prayers for a ten year-old boy who will never know what's it's like to fall in love and have a family.

I don't understand why God takes the innocent.

Julie


TOPICS: General Discusssion; Prayer
KEYWORDS: cancer; deathofachild; prayer; youngchildren
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To: proud American in Canada

We all see “through a glass and darkly” in this life. James sees clearly now. God doen’t “take the innocent”. Illness took James. God bless you and all those who loved James through his life. Ask James to intercede with God for you. He can do that now.


61 posted on 03/24/2013 6:00:16 AM PDT by Repulican Donkey
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To: Fee; proud American in Canada

Thank you, Fee. I was going to share something similar. Think not that God took the innocent, but the cancer was the killer. We live in a world where the consequences of sin affect us. Not your nephew’s sin, but humanity’s sin. As a result, we are all recipients of blessings, and at times targets of tragedy.

How we survive, minister, and most difficult, give God the glory through tragedy is where we find the blessing.

Prayers are with you.


62 posted on 03/24/2013 6:05:05 AM PDT by ican'tbelieveit
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To: CA Conservative
What we can do, however, is pray for the family - pray for peace and comfort, and pray that somehow even this tragedy can provide a witness to others, reminding them that none of us are guaranteed a tomorrow.

Well said. Surely the child is in the loving arms of our Savior who would never deny heaven to His children, specially those of such a young age.

My prayers are for the family of the child; may the Lord's grace, comfort and mercy bless them and keep them from all harm while they mourn their loss.

63 posted on 03/24/2013 6:15:50 AM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: proud American in Canada

Condolences


64 posted on 03/24/2013 6:15:57 AM PDT by 1217Chic
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To: proud American in Canada

Prayers up.


65 posted on 03/24/2013 6:16:54 AM PDT by P.O.E. (Pray for America)
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To: proud American in Canada

Prayers up. Stay strong in your faith.

THE WILL OF GOD

The will of God will never take you,
Where the grace of God cannot keep you,
Where the arms of God cannot support you,
Where the riches of God cannot supply your needs,
Where the power of God cannot endow you.

The will of God will never take you,
Where the spirit of God cannot work through you,
Where the wisdom of God cannot teach you,
Where the army of God cannot protect you,
Where the hands of God cannot mold you.

The will of God will never take you,
Where the love of God cannot enfold you,
Where the mercies of God cannot sustain you,
Where the peace of God cannot calm your fears,
Where the authority of God cannot overrule for you.

The will of God will never take you,
Where the comfort of God cannot dry your tears,
Where the Word of God cannot feed you,
Where the miracles of God cannot be done for you,
Where the omnipresence of God cannot find you.

Author unknown


66 posted on 03/24/2013 6:29:31 AM PDT by Faith65 (Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior!)
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To: proud American in Canada

OMG horrible. Stay strong. They need you to be.


67 posted on 03/24/2013 6:31:30 AM PDT by GlockThe Vote (The Obama Adminstration: 2nd wave ofo attacks on America after 9/11)
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To: proud American in Canada; Ron C.; wolfman23601; ColdOne; navymom1; Pat4ever; RIghtwardHo; ...

Prayers up!


68 posted on 03/24/2013 6:33:14 AM PDT by narses
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To: proud American in Canada

God comfort you Julie, I am praying for you.


69 posted on 03/24/2013 6:40:35 AM PDT by patriotsblood
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To: proud American in Canada

Prayers for your family. All I can say is that I believe it to be “normal” to have questions of faith when one faces such a horrible loss. However, I can say that I believe with every fiber of my being that James is with God. He is happy and no longer in pain. He is also waiting.. patiently.. to see all of you again.

As for what you can do for your sister? Be there. Call her on James’ birth date and tell her you are thinking of him. She will be and it will comfort her to know that other people remember him as well. Call on the holidays as well. The worst thing to do (IMHO) is to retreat with the idea that she needs “space”. I know that many people do this assuming the other person will call if they feel the need to talk. However, they often feel abandoned and that their loved one is simply forgotten. Prayers for comfort, peace and love for your family. Hugs, Mom


70 posted on 03/24/2013 6:45:00 AM PDT by momtothree
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To: proud American in Canada

Prayers lifted


71 posted on 03/24/2013 6:48:06 AM PDT by never4get (We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid)
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To: proud American in Canada

Prayers and condolences to your family.


72 posted on 03/24/2013 6:57:48 AM PDT by Sirius Lee (All that is required for evil to advance is for government to do "something")
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To: proud American in Canada
I guess I'm asking now if for prayers for a ten year-old boy who will never know what's it's like to fall in love and have a family.

Incorrect. He experienced love in the purest form, and I suspect he couldn't have experienced a better family.

Stay solid in your faith, God needed him back right now.

Love and prayers.

73 posted on 03/24/2013 6:59:59 AM PDT by Lazamataz ("AP" clearly stands for American Pravda. Our news media has become completely and proudly Soviet.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

That child is now in bliss—depend upon it—”today you shall be with me in paradise” was said to the thug next to Christ on the cross, and all—only—because of his belief.

I pray for him, of course, and for you, so sad and weary and so ardent to keep faith despite what seems to damage it. God bless you and bless you with the increase of faith.


74 posted on 03/24/2013 7:05:27 AM PDT by lauraw
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To: proud American in Canada

Warm Hugs to you and your family. Thoughts of love to you all.


75 posted on 03/24/2013 7:21:38 AM PDT by Pilated
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To: proud American in Canada
So sorry Julie!! God bless you and your family. All I know is that I know God is always right...believe me, your nephew is knowing a love right now that you and I can't even imagine!! It has taken me 50 years to get to that place in life and I am grateful every day for it.
Keeping you and yours in my prayers
76 posted on 03/24/2013 7:23:28 AM PDT by 4everontheRight (And the story began with..."Once there was a great nation......")
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To: proud American in Canada

How ghastly. I am so sorry.


77 posted on 03/24/2013 7:23:31 AM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: proud American in Canada

Julie, so very sorry to hear of your family’s loss. God bless you all in your time of sorrow.


78 posted on 03/24/2013 7:26:47 AM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: proud American in Canada

I’m so sorry to hear about this. I will pray for you and your sister and family.


79 posted on 03/24/2013 7:38:06 AM PDT by dragonblustar (2 Peter 3:18)
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To: proud American in Canada
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Julie. To lose a loved one is hard; losing a loved one who is a child is doubly hard. There are no easy answers to questions we have at times like these, but know that ultimately the answer is that God loves us all. If you begin and end there, you will do well.

Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. By the mercy of God may his soul and the soul of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen.

And may the Lord, dear Julie, comfort you and grant you peace in spirit and mind. Amen.

80 posted on 03/24/2013 7:53:18 AM PDT by fidelis (Zonie and USAF Cold Warrior)
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