Read “Too Bruised to be Touched” by Father Ron Rolheiser
I shared that with many a grieving person who lost a loved one. At least some were grateful and reassured that their loved one was not condemned to hell by God, maybe just by people who take it upon themselves to act on His behalf
http://www.parentsofsuicide.com/Cookbook/too_bruised.html
http://www.jknirp.com/miscon.htm
That article you linked, from the National Institute for the Renewal of the Priesthood, explains it excellently. Thanks for posting.