If she raises HER child, that is HER decision.
The phrase elevates rapists.
I can accept that wording. I believe you are right about that, and I do not want to elevate rapists.
I think it’s fair to say that in choosing to raise the child, that being a decision of incredible strength and wisdom, it makes it her child and not his.
I appreciate your pointing this out to me, I will refer to it as the rapist in the future and not her rapist.