[Hoodat]

It's not just the same-gender aspect. The key issue here is that they are engaging in pre-marital sex. If they weren't doing that, then it is highly unlikely they would want to marry each other to begin with.

I know that for my pastor, he would not be willing to marry a couple that had been living together and sharing a bed prior to getting married.

[balch3]

I know that for my pastor, he would not be willing to marry a couple that had been living together and sharing a bed prior to getting married.

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This, I don’t understand. They’re living in sin. Now, they no longer want to live in sin, and the pastor won’t make it official?