Ping!
My friend was civilly divorced by her husband. He just left. She was devastated. She was also a Catholic School teacher. She met a man some time later and wanted to marry him. But unlike these other "pay me's", she resigned her position and moved to another city.
She would have not been allowed per her contract to continue teaching and carry on a relationship with this other man. Even if they weren't living together.
But people know this going in. These perverts, what are they 1 percent of the population? Do they know that the muslims will kill them first? I don't think they do.