Several years ago, while standing in line waiting for a ticket office to open, I overheard the woman standing next to me talk about her gay lifestyle. She was talking on her cell phone in public like she would have talked at home.
She said her lifestyle had been a choice that she took and that choice had not brought her happiness and she wished she could go back and do it again.
It was extremely enlightening for me.
My sister feels the same way. She regrets her choice.