[manc]

Good for you , and my wife and I have been together for over 20 years, actually 22 years and we are just if not as happy as that first day.
We loved our wedding, and yes it was not Catholic, and if people have a problem with that then so be it. We are happy, our kids are happy , and that is all what counts in this family.

[defconw]

Well I don't get into other people's faith traditions or what they believe. Which is to say, I don't judge them. Catholics I try to make sure they know what they are doing. They need to know what they are doing. It's a big deal, it affects more than just them. Pre-Cana is a must. The only thing I regret is That I can't do Pre-Cana education with the couples. My husband is not into it and I can't do it alone.