Ask him a simple question. If God told you in no uncertain terms you had to abandon your lifestyle...would you? That will tell you which he values more—God or himself. And if it’s the latter, I can guarantee you that he will wind up in hell.
And let’s not kid ourselves about the “long users manual”. People have an innate sense of right and wrong called a conscience, and most normal people who are being tempted toward sexual sin have to repeatedly convince themselves that what they are about to do is ok.
He’s an atheist. Well - more agnostic now.
Yet I’ll back his conscience against anyone. I know he hears God. We were out on an operation and he heard “drop” clear as day. None of us said it.
Seriously, I don’t know. I love this guy. He’s had my back for years.