Good analysis.
My 35 year old daughter is slowly returning to the Church. She volunteers regularly and is a positive spirit in the Parish. She is still struggling with Mass and the Eucharist. When she attends, she goes up and crosses her arms for the blessing. She has told me, “I know what it means and I don’t want to Church to change for me”. I pray for her daily and am happy that she is honest in her Faith journey.