That’s kinda my point.
In High School we had to dress out and wear our Cheerleader uniforms to school every Friday. But no one ever said anything to me about that.
I’ve worn corsets as outer wear several times and the only comment I got was a girl asking me where she could get one like that.
The only time that I had anyone say anything to me was before I went into my corset phase, when I was wearing jeans and a t-shirt all the time and got told I was flaunting myself. How was I supposed to know that Hello Kitty on an oversized t-shirt sends certain men into lust-filled frenzies? I thought it was rather innocent.
How is this different from having women cover up from head to toe just like muslims?
Maybe the person wasn’t talking about dress, but was talking about behavior.