I'm sorry you didn't understand my point. My point was that we do not have any moral obligation to obey the law simply because it is the law.
I urge all my fellow citizens to disobey immoral laws so long as they can do so without suffering serious repercussions.
We need to be as disobedient, defiant, and resistive of these evil people as we can.
If your company promises to give benefits to legally married couples, they have to give benefits to legally married couples.
Think of it as like making a deal with the devil. If you don’t think they are morally married, it doesn’t mean they aren’t legally married and your agreement is for married couples.