I was going to post David Cloud’s directory too!
We, too, have been trying to find a “perfect” church, but I have come to the realization that there is no perfect church here on Earth, until Christ returns and establishes the perfect church, once and forever.
Praying that God will reveal where He wants you to fellowship.
As a side note, fill me in on the SBC - homosexual reference. I need that information for my own information. I’ve been thinking they were one of the last holdouts, from an organizational level. Not perfect, at all. I just thought they were more grounded. Ugg....