“not been properly grounded in Catholic theology”.
Nor discernment. God can console but the evil spirits can give a false consolation. The world around us and our own flesh (desires, ideas) can deceive us and make us think they’re the voice of God.
I once saw a couple on TV with crosses around their necks talking about how God “led” them through the in-vitro fertilization process. He didn’t lead them through a process involving masturbation and dead human embryos. They did their own will and projected in onto God. Sorry for their cross of infertility (not unconnected sometimes to years of contraceptive use; another grave evil so many of Christ’s followers erroneously think he’s okay with because they’re deceived by the devil and dominated by the world), but not every idea that pops into our head nor every good feeling is the voice of God.
Just wow....
A couple is dealing with infertility and you imply that it's because of sin in their lives involving alleged, presumed contraceptive use?
You have no knowledge of the causes of their infertility and to pass judgment on them knowing neither them nor their health history, is beyond reprehensible. It's slander, plain and simple.
Your holier-than-thouness is showing.
Shame on you for that kind of spiritual pride and judgment.